Posts Tagged ‘Homemaking’

Being A Joy-filled Homemaker

Wednesday, September 22nd, 2010

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It is very easy to get caught up in the drudgery of homemaking. Especially if you have gotten behind. Meals constantly need prepared, the dirty dishes never end, laundry piles up, toys are scattered down the hall, and then your toddler wants to show you their newest art project — on the wall…in a combination of pen and crayon.

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(Its a panda)

How do we remain joyful homemakers and mothers when our houses are being destroyed faster than we can clean them?

We must first understand what joy is. According to Merriam-Webster joy is “the emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune or by the prospect of possessing what one desires”. This type of joy is shallow and has no substance. According to Merriam-Webster, our joy is dependent on our circumstances and can change from one moment to the next.

Scripture speaks of joy differently. Throughout the New Testament, joy is sponken on in spite of the circumstances. James 1:2 tells us to have joy even in the midst of trials. This would be impossible if our joy was found in the circumstances around us. Paul spoke of rejoicing always (Philipians 4:4) while he was imprisoned — a much more dire situation than a messy house.

We can only have this joy because of our salvation. We rejoice that while we are wretched sinners, God has seen fit to grant us so great a salvation.

Joy comes from having peace with God. When our salvation is sure, we can rejoice in our salvation. Then, no matter our circumstances, we can joyfully rest in Christ Jesus.

Reed Diffuser

Monday, September 20th, 2010

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I love being surrounded by different smells. Lately I have had a thing for citrus, previously it was flowery smells. So, I have been playing with trying to make something besides candles to have around my house. I finally figured out how to make a reed diffuser, and I really like it.

I got a couple of small bottles i had in my pantry. I think I had gotten them from Hobby Lobby, but Ive had them for a few years, so I’m not entirely certain. Bamboo skewers, olive oil, my essential oils, a sharp knife, a cutting board and a funnel

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I cut the points off of the bamboo skewers. For the shorter bottle, I also cut them in half, but for the tall bottle, they seemed to be a pretty good length.

Then I filled the bottle about 1/2 full of olive oil and added about 20 drops of essential oil. I used olive oil as my carrier oil since that is what i had on hand. However, I have read that almond or sunflower oil make a really good carrier oils as well.

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Then I stirred my oil and essential oil with one of the bamboo skewers, and left it there, and added more skewers

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It took over night to have my small one start to have a good scent. The taller still isnt really giving off much, but the skewers are starting to darken, so I dont think I have given it enough time yet.

Freezer Meals

Wednesday, September 15th, 2010

I have serveral times come across the idea of cooking freezer meals so that on those days you simply dont want to cook. (Or, in my case, so that you have a stock of really easy meals postpartum.) While it seemed like a good idea, it also seemed like a lot more effort than I wanted to put into it. I’m pregnant, due any day now, and have a toddler, I simply dont have time to dedicate an entire day to cooking.

So, instead of having a cooking day, I had a cooking week. Everyday for a week, I made one or two extra meals. So, we now have a nice stock of Lamb Stew, Beef Stew, Sweet and Sour Meatballs, Fajitas, and Taco Pasta

Hopefully that will be enough to cover meals for a while since I will be having to be taking it easy and love on my new baby.

Peach Trees

Thursday, September 9th, 2010

We have three peach trees in our backyard. They arent the healthiest looking things….they’ve probably been neglected for the better part of 15 years. We meant to prune them last winter, but since we knew that some branches were dead, we decided to wait a year so we could figure out which branches were dead, and which ones were not. So, we figured our peach crop would be abysmal this year…we were wrong….very wrong.

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This is our second crop of peaches. The first crop was smaller, and tasty, most of the peaches we ate. The rest I sliced, and then spead the slices out on a cookie sheet and froze them. Then put them in a gallon freezer baggie. Now when Bryan asks me to make peach cobbler in Febuary, I dont have to look at him strangely. :)

The second crop, I had no idea what to do with. So, I went and got the Ball Blue Book of Perserving hoping for ideas. We decided to try making Peach Butter and Peach Conserves. Both are quite yummy, but, unfortuently, the conserves didn’t completely gel. There is a troubleshooting page in the back of the book, so I think I will be able to save it…and if it doesn’t work…at the very least I have peaches in syrup.

I also dehydrated a bunch of peaches. I’m going to make granola either today or tomorrow and will used the dehydrated peaches in it. I also accidently made peach brittle. It was supposed to be peach fruit leather, but I over dehydrated it, and it got really brittle. It still tastes yummy though.

Bryan just picked the third crop of peaches. These ones I think I am going to make a cobbler, freeze, and dehydrate more. Hopefully we’ll get them all taken care of.

Oh, and now we really need to prune our trees, we had so many peaches, several branches broke…even after we thinned out the fruit several times

Keeping A Control Journal

Wednesday, August 25th, 2010

Every time I’ve found a website that has the “cure” for my disorganization, one of the things they have mentioned making a “control journal”, “housekeeping notebook”, and a gazillion other names for the same thing. I finally decided that they might be on to something, and build one, and I love it. It does a lot of my thinking for me, so when I get up in the morning, and leave my brain behind on the pillow, (or it wandered away to who knows where) I still have my notebook to tell me what to do.

I call mine my control journal since that was the term that Flylady used. Her system didn’t really work for me. But I was able to glean a few ideas from her.

The first page of my control journal, I think is probably the most important. It’s a list of verses I got from Doorposts that I find very encouraging on those days I just feel beat down.
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Then my tabs start. I have a tab for Calendars, Finances, Kitchen, Homekeeping, Chore Charts, Homeschool, Herbal Scents, Ministry, Crafts, Articles, Homestead, Addresses, Emergency.

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In calendars, I have a year overview calendar and monthly calendars, as well as a list of birthdays so i can make sure to get cards bought and sent out.

In Finances, I have a list of my bills for the month, when they have been paid, or need to be paid, and can write down when I paid them. I also got tired of having to keep up with those little paper check registers you can get from the banks, and I never have been able to balance on on the computer. So I just have lined notebook paper that I use as a check register.

In Kitchen, I have a list of the favorite meals for lunch and dinner, and I am working on a breakfast one. My menu that gets planned according to when I am going to Albuquerque next, and an inventory of my pantry and freezer that I havn’t updated in probably 3 months. So it hasn’t done me much good.

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Homekeeping is where I keep my to do lists. I have one for me as well as one for Bryan. I also keep my schedule in this section, as well as my chore charts. I keep chore charts for myself so I don’t have to think about what house cleaning needs done. I made my chart fairly extensive, and as long as I do everything, or at least most things on it, the house should stay clean. I keep my spring cleaning lists here too.

Chore Charts is a tiny section that will be more important once Rachael can do neat things like read. But the charts are helpful for me to know what I have decided that she is able to do. I have 2 charts from Polished Cornerstones in this section. One is the Personal Hygiene Chart, and the other is the Self-Government in Chores. I also have a chart from a scheduling book that I can list chores and what ages should be able to preform those chores.

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In the Homeschool section, I keep both my Polished Cornerstone plan for the month, and Rachael’s preschool lesson plan.

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My Herbal Scents tab has ideas for my blog, soap recipes that I have made and ideas for my etsy store. I also have charts for soap stuff there so that I can easily reference them.

I am the librarian for the church library. So, my ministry section has a list of what needs done at the library, As well as the Church Bylaws. We also sponsor a couple of children through Gospel for Asia. So I also keep the child’s most recent letter and the stationary if I need to write them back.

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Crafts and Articles are both more “fun” sections than running the house. Crafts, I have a list of the crafts that I want to do, as well as ideas for projects further in the future. Articles is just that. Articles that I have read online (or elsewhere, but usually online) that I liked, or made a particular point that I wanted to remember.

Homestead has information for our little homestead. I have notes on what needs planted when. A chart on the probability of frost for spring and fall. We want to start saving seeds, so information on seed saving. We also have chickens, so I have a diagram of external chicken anatomy, and an article on predator identification since we have lost 8 chickens. (We think its the neighbor’s dog.) And I have a drawing of how I would like my yard to ideally be laid out.

The last 2 sections are pretty basic. I have addresses and emergency info. In emergency, I have a short medical history for each of us, allergies (both medicine and known pollen) info, and emergency contact numbers. I also have a check list of stuff for if we ever need to evacuate.

So, that’s my control journal. I hope getting a glimpse of mine will help people get ideas on staying better organized. Mine is a bit more detailed than most of the others that I have seen. But, I wanted something that could micromanage and think for me so that I can spend more time with Rachael than concentrating on what else needs done.

Learning 12 Things

Sunday, August 15th, 2010

Recently, I bought Emilie’s Creative Home Organizer.  As I was reading the chapter on Organization, it said, “Studies show that the success rate for people who write down their goals is about 90 times greater than for those who don’t.”  I thought that it was a nice quote, and I probably should be writing down my goals.  If nothing else so that I could remember them.  :)

Then, last night,  I was reading Like A Warm Cup of Coffee and saw that she was starting a link up on learning 12 new things — one a month.  I decided that would be a good way to not only write down the things that I want to learn, but actually do them.

August – Make a basket
September – Make Homemade Tortillas
October – Read Nourishing Traditions
November – Decorate for fall/Thanksgiving
December – Make a wreath
January – Prune a tree
February – Read Home Comforts
March – Design a pattern for a jumper
April – Knit with 2 different colors
May – Make a slip cover for my couch
June – Make pasta
July – Knit from a chart

So, sometime during each of the months, I’ll be posting about how my attempt to learn went.

Homemade Laundry Detergent

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

I am really big into using natural cleaners and as few weird chemicals as possible. I wholeheartedly believe that it is healthier for my family, and a lot of times, it’s easier on my budget as well. :)

Yesterday, I made laundry soap. It’s actually quiet easy. All you need is 4 ingredients. Fels Napa or Zote Soap, Washing Soda and Borax. I used Zote for a while, but I can no longer find it. So, I’ve been using Fels Napa. I think I might like the Fels Napa a little better.

Anyway, grate 1/2 bar of your chosen soap into a medium to large pot.

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Add water, and heat on the stove to melt the soap.  The bubbles are from adding water.  Do not let it boil.  Then you have bubbles everywhere.

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Here’s what it should look like after it’s all melted.

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The add 3/4 cup each of Washing Soda and Borax.

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Heat and stir until it’s all dissolved.  I have found it helpful to add one, stir, and then add the other.  It does not seem to matter which order you add them in.

Then, dump your mixture in a 2 gallon bucket.

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And fill your bucket up with water.  It’s actually better to not get as many bubbles as I did when filling up your bucket.   But, being pregnant, I was having trouble lifting it out of the sink.  So I’ve been using the sink sprayer hose, and that makes quite a bit more bubbles.

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I use 1/2 cup per load.   2 gallons will give you about 64 loads.

One thing to note.  This does make a very low sudsing detergent.  It will still get your clothes clean.  The bubbles aren’t what get them clean.   The soap being in the water does.  When you are used to using normal detergent, it’s a little worrying to not see any bubbles when you do your first few loads.

Learning to Cook

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

Yesterday, Rachael helped me cook. I’ve had her help before, but she tends to get in the way. She actually did very well last night. I guess that is one of the nice things about pizza — its easy.

I chopped up the veggie toppings while Rachael helped me sort them into bowls.

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We then worked on making sausage. I used the recipe from Raising Homemakers. I didn’t have any ground turkey, so I substituted ground lamb. It turned out pretty good. Rachael dumped the spices in the bowl for me. (after i measured them)

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Shortly after I took that picture, Rachael used the measuring spoon to scoop up a bunch of the spices and eat them. She then informed me that a 1/4 teaspoon of nothing but spices doesn’t taste very good. :)

Rachael got to eat cheddar bunnies while I rolled out the pizza dough. I used a recipe from Nourishing Traditions, that while tasted pretty good, I didn’t read the directions all the way, and missed the prebake. So it never did get it to cook all the way though, and the middle of our pizza was slightly gooey….Anyway, after I got the dough rolled out and on the pizza pan, Rachael helped me put tomato sauce on the dough.

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The only problem we had there, was by then Rachael was hungry, and when I gave her the spoon to help me spread the sauce, she kept stabbing the dough trying to scoop up a spoon full to eat.

We then added the toppings

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and after 45 mins, we had a pizza. :)

For learning homemaking myself, I’m sort of doing Polishing Cornerstones. The assignment was to read a book on nutrition or some aspect of healthy eating. Nourishing Traditions by Sally Fallon has been really fascinating. However, reading is going very slow. I will write about it if i ever get past page 25. :)

Learning to Clean

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

Well, I managed to kill my routine. But I’ll keep trying. I had one day that I got behind, so I stayed up really late trying to catch up. Then, I slept in the next morning (I am lucky Rachael lets me do so) But sleeping in put me behind agian….and Ive been behind since Monday, and my poor husband hasnt gotten breakfast since then. So my biggest goal for the week is to get back on schedule. Meaning: go to bed on time and get up on time. I also think I’m gonna have to rework my routine a bit, and schedule some computer time, maybe that will help not spending so much time on the computer.

Rachael’s potty training also isnt going well. But I think that’s my fault, I havnt been consistant enough. But she at least sorta understands, she now tells me almost every time she needs a clean diaper.

I also did a lesson from Polished Cornerstones. I went though my bible and found several characters that exhibited self discipline. Then, during story time with Rachael, I’ve told her about a different person. Today, I’m gonna tell her about Daniel, and how Daniel worked hard, and worshiped God even when it was illegal to do so.

Rachael is also getting big enough that she wants to help me clean the house. We had an potty training accident on the carpet, and I had to pull out the shampooer. Then after I was done, and starting to put it away, I turned around and she had grabbed the hose, and was rubbing it on the floor.

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Then on Monday, I was mopping the kitchen floor. I have found that my floor gets cleaner if I use a rag rather than a mop. So I was on my hands and knees with my back to my water bucket, mopping. Then I heard a splash. My first thought was “please dont let that be what I think it was”. So I turned and there was Rachael standing in a puddle holding a dripping wet rag (where did she find one?) with a HUGE grin on her face. Then she said “mama!” and squatted down and started wash the floor, and then dip the rag back in the bucket.

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Then she did what I expect most 18 month olds would do….she sat in the puddle.

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And people say being a SAHM is boring. :)

Another Week of Learning Self-Discipline

Friday, July 16th, 2010

This week, I tried adding an exercise schedule to my routine. It didn’t add well…we (whole family) went for a bike ride on Tuesday, but that was all the exercise I got for the week. Not exactly a workout at least 3x a week.
Rachael’s lesson in self-discipline has nothing to do with Polished Cornerstones. We started potty training on Thursday. She’s not quite understanding what I want her to do. But, we’ll get it eventually.