Posts Tagged ‘Children’

Making A Onesie Dress

Friday, August 27th, 2010

I hate yellow. I couldn’t tell you why, I have no idea. But something that is just plain yellow, I really don’t like.

Rachael was given a yellow onesie. No decorations, no little cute appliqué. Just…a yellow onesie. Clothes are clothes, and since she looks pretty good in yellow, she wore it anyway. But that didn’t make me hate yellow any less. Every time I would fold it, I would look at it and remind myself, that I hate yellow. So, I finally decided to do something about it.

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When Rachael was 4 months old, I decided to make her a baby dress. It turned out really cute. But I did have to buy fabric for it twice. I read the directions 6 or 7 times, but still misunderstood them and made a cut on the skirt about 3 inches too long. So the skirt piece went into my box of sewing fabric to not be thought of again for almost a year.

So, to fix the onesie, I pulled out that peice of fabric, along with some scraps from the same project. I captured Rachael and wrapped the skirt peice around her to make sure it would fit. It did, so I decided I’ll make her a onesie dress.

From the other scrap fabric I had, I cut two giant triangles. I just folded my fabric in half, and figured out the biggest triangle I could manage and decided that hopefully it would be big enough to allow walking room.

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Then I cut off the strange curves in the skirt peice, and sewed one of my triangles in. I was glad to see that it was definatly long enough :)

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Then, I put the second triangle on the opposite side, and sewed the sides up. I also clipped the points on either side ‘cuase they looked strange.

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I hemmed the waist, and then turned the skirt inside out and stuck the onesie in it. After guessing about where Rachael’s waist was, I sewed the two together.

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There were a couple things I forgot to take into account. The big one being that the onesie is stretchy and the skirt is not. So, we cant pull it over Rachael’s head like every other dress she has. We have to have her step into it. Also, since I approximated her waist a little low at a certian angle, it looks like the skirt is falling off. I think since she’s almost to tall (but not too wide yet) for the onesie part, I’m just gonna cut off the snaps, and then reattach the skirt a little higher.
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Where did the time go?

Wednesday, August 11th, 2010

Have you ever wondered where all your time goes? Even with a routine, I’m still managing to feel like there simply aren’t enough hours in the day. Why didnt God give us nice 30 hour days, with the need to sleep only 8?

I asked Bryan this week if he knew of any thing that I consistently did that was a time waster. He said that I sleep too much, and spend too much time on the internet.

I have to disagree with the sleep too much. The problem is that I stay up too late, and thus get up late. But, the only thing he sees is that I get up after he does…So, I must work on going to bed earlier, so that I can get up earlier.

For finding out just how much time I was wasting online, I decided to write down the time every time I sat down to the computer, and every time I left. I spent 3.5 hours on the computer. I was stunned. How could I possibly be using that much computer time and have no clue? That’s nearly 1/2 a work day! So, less computer time for me. I am working on revising my schedule to add in some computer time.

Rachael got some chores this week, and she is doing really good with them. She now takes her plate from the table to the trash and empties it, and then puts it in the dish washer. She puts clothes in the dryer for me. (I have to hand them to her) Or, if I am hanging them outside, then she hands them to me.

She also really likes books. Several times, when she suddenly gets quiet, and I go to check on her, it’s because she found a book to look at. Most of the time, its her picture books. Sometime it’s my heavier reading. I have found her looking at Sense and Sensibility and John Calvin’s Institutes. The problem is, when she gets bored, she abandons them. So, we are working on only getting one book at a time, and putting it back after she is done. I’m also trying to teach her the same thing about her toys. At least putting it back after she’s done.

I was having problems with her being afraid of the broom and the vacuum. So, we got her toy versions of both. She likes to use the broom like a vacuum. It’s really cute to watch. Unfortunately, every time I tried to take her picture, she would turn

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Her little vacuum supposedly really will pick up stuff. But we aren’t really a fan of battery toys. So it has no batteries, and I have no idea if it picks up anything. We figured she can push it around and pretend.

Learning to Cook

Thursday, July 29th, 2010

Yesterday, Rachael helped me cook. I’ve had her help before, but she tends to get in the way. She actually did very well last night. I guess that is one of the nice things about pizza — its easy.

I chopped up the veggie toppings while Rachael helped me sort them into bowls.

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We then worked on making sausage. I used the recipe from Raising Homemakers. I didn’t have any ground turkey, so I substituted ground lamb. It turned out pretty good. Rachael dumped the spices in the bowl for me. (after i measured them)

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Shortly after I took that picture, Rachael used the measuring spoon to scoop up a bunch of the spices and eat them. She then informed me that a 1/4 teaspoon of nothing but spices doesn’t taste very good. :)

Rachael got to eat cheddar bunnies while I rolled out the pizza dough. I used a recipe from Nourishing Traditions, that while tasted pretty good, I didn’t read the directions all the way, and missed the prebake. So it never did get it to cook all the way though, and the middle of our pizza was slightly gooey….Anyway, after I got the dough rolled out and on the pizza pan, Rachael helped me put tomato sauce on the dough.

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The only problem we had there, was by then Rachael was hungry, and when I gave her the spoon to help me spread the sauce, she kept stabbing the dough trying to scoop up a spoon full to eat.

We then added the toppings

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and after 45 mins, we had a pizza. :)

For learning homemaking myself, I’m sort of doing Polishing Cornerstones. The assignment was to read a book on nutrition or some aspect of healthy eating. Nourishing Traditions by Sally Fallon has been really fascinating. However, reading is going very slow. I will write about it if i ever get past page 25. :)

Learning to Clean

Wednesday, July 21st, 2010

Well, I managed to kill my routine. But I’ll keep trying. I had one day that I got behind, so I stayed up really late trying to catch up. Then, I slept in the next morning (I am lucky Rachael lets me do so) But sleeping in put me behind agian….and Ive been behind since Monday, and my poor husband hasnt gotten breakfast since then. So my biggest goal for the week is to get back on schedule. Meaning: go to bed on time and get up on time. I also think I’m gonna have to rework my routine a bit, and schedule some computer time, maybe that will help not spending so much time on the computer.

Rachael’s potty training also isnt going well. But I think that’s my fault, I havnt been consistant enough. But she at least sorta understands, she now tells me almost every time she needs a clean diaper.

I also did a lesson from Polished Cornerstones. I went though my bible and found several characters that exhibited self discipline. Then, during story time with Rachael, I’ve told her about a different person. Today, I’m gonna tell her about Daniel, and how Daniel worked hard, and worshiped God even when it was illegal to do so.

Rachael is also getting big enough that she wants to help me clean the house. We had an potty training accident on the carpet, and I had to pull out the shampooer. Then after I was done, and starting to put it away, I turned around and she had grabbed the hose, and was rubbing it on the floor.

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Then on Monday, I was mopping the kitchen floor. I have found that my floor gets cleaner if I use a rag rather than a mop. So I was on my hands and knees with my back to my water bucket, mopping. Then I heard a splash. My first thought was “please dont let that be what I think it was”. So I turned and there was Rachael standing in a puddle holding a dripping wet rag (where did she find one?) with a HUGE grin on her face. Then she said “mama!” and squatted down and started wash the floor, and then dip the rag back in the bucket.

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Then she did what I expect most 18 month olds would do….she sat in the puddle.

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And people say being a SAHM is boring. :)

Another Week of Learning Self-Discipline

Friday, July 16th, 2010

This week, I tried adding an exercise schedule to my routine. It didn’t add well…we (whole family) went for a bike ride on Tuesday, but that was all the exercise I got for the week. Not exactly a workout at least 3x a week.
Rachael’s lesson in self-discipline has nothing to do with Polished Cornerstones. We started potty training on Thursday. She’s not quite understanding what I want her to do. But, we’ll get it eventually.

Polished Cornerstones: Self Control and Routines

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ,
Titus 2:11-13

For this week, I worked on my routines, getting one set up and in place.  Rachael took very quickly to her new morning routine.  She reminds me when I forget.  I also wrote a short piece on how a lack of self-control relates to sin.

“Whatever increases the strength and authority of your body over your mind – that thing is sin to you”
Susanna Wesley

Mary looks up the TV, controller in hand, wondering what in the world happened to her day.  Fred, sits down to play video games, and though intending just to play for an hour or two, continues to play for hour and hours on end.  Susan devours novels one after the other, and spends her time wondering what happens next.  Victoria is having a bad day and manages to clean out her entire pantry of all snacks.  Tim sits down at the computer to read the news and check his email and then wanders to more “interesting” sites.  While none of these people started out doing something wrong, they all managed to reach the same destination – sin.  Sin, is defined as willful rebellion against God.

It is in our very natures to rebel against God.   As sinners, we can easily take an entirely innocuous object, and give ourselves over to it, we make it an idol, and that action is sin.  There are things that while are not sinful in and of themselves, when used without self-control, they become sin.   A television, video game console, book or computer is not a sinful object, it is merely an object.  However, when that object starts to take over a person’s life, it becomes sinful.   While a thing may not be sinful, when we begin to love that thing, it can cause us to fall into sin.  We need to remember that it is not to this world to which we should cling.   “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.  For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world.  And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.” 1 John 2:16

The key is in the person.  That person must exercise self-control in every aspect of their lives.  However, we must also remember that we are not alone.  Jesus sent the Holy Spirit to guide us and to help us grow in holiness.  In that growth, we will start to develop the fruits of the spirit.  “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.”  Galatians 5:22-23a   This is what we as Christians must strive to obtain as we grow in holiness, becoming more like Christ.

Morning Routine – Summer

6:00    Breakfast

Empty Dishwasher
Empty Dishdrainer – if needed
Clean Up Breakfast
Get Ready for the Day
get dressed
brush teeth
brush hair
wash face
Make Bed
Collect and  Sort Laundry
Start Laundry

7:30    Hang Laundry

Outside Time

9:00    Daily Room Chores
9:30    Rachael’s Nap

Bible Study

11:00  15 min declutter
11:30    Lunch

Family Bible Time

12:30    Put Away Lunch

Defrost Dinner
Story Time

1:30    Rachael’s Nap

Daily Room Chores

3:30    Wake up Rachael – if needed

Snack Time
Playtime

4:00    Collect Dry Laundry

Fold Laundry
Bryan gets home

5:00    Playtime

Bryan Kung Fu

7:30    Dinner
8:00    Rachael Read for Bed

bath, brush teeth, brush hair, jammies, story, prayers

8:30    Rachael Bedtime

Clean Up Dinner
Start Dishwasher
Wash Dishes
Wipe Down Counters
Wipe Down Stove
Sweep
Shine Sink
15 min declutter
Empty Dishdrainer – if dry

9:30    Get Ready for Bed
9:55    Lock Up House

Open Dishwasher

10:00    Bedtime

When I say daily room chores, I clean a different room and do laundry depending on the day of the week.
Monday

chores: kitchen
laundry: dish towels, lights

Tuesday

chores: bathrooms
laundry: towels, darks

Wednesday

chores: bedrooms
laundry: bedding, whites

Thursday

chores: livingroom, studyroom
laundry: pants, rags

Friday

chores: entryway, laundry room, errands
laundry: anything needed over weekend

So, that’s my new routine, it seemed to work last week, hopefully I can keep it going.  The biggest problem I’ve encountered is Rachael doesn’t always believe me its naptime when I say it is.

Toys

Saturday, July 3rd, 2010

When I clean the kitchen, everything that is not glass, cast iron or sharp goes in one cabinet. That is the cabinet that my daughter is allowed to play in. She loves to clank my baking pans together. Investigate the cutting boards, and she’s working on trying to figure out what in the world that clasp is for on my springform pan.
A few days ago, she must have gotten into that cabinet while I wasn’t looking…even though she has a lot of toys in her room…

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She hasn’t played with them in a while.  Her favorite is a cake pan set inside the tortilla warmer.  Then she sits in it and scoots around the kitchen.  Makes me wonder why I even bother with the other toys….

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Becoming a Self-Disciplined Woman

Thursday, July 1st, 2010

For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age, waiting for our blessed hope, the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ,
Titus 2:11-13

Just before Jesus ascended to heaven, He said that He would send us a helper — the Holy Spirit. I found great comfort in realizing that I have help in learning to follow Christ, especially in the realm of self-discipline.
This is something that I desperately need to learn. If I have minimal self-discipline, how can I teach my daughter self-discipline?   I recently got Polished Cornerstones and was glad to see that they have a chapter on being Self Disciplined.  My daughter is too young to be self-disciplined (she’s almost 18 months old)  but, as I learn, I can teach her.

For Rachael, we already had a bedtime routine.  So, I decided to give her a morning routine — something that she did not have because I did not have one.  So now, after breakfast every morning, we get ready for the day, not when mommy gets around to it.  I also gave myself a schedule, dividing up the house so that I focus on a particular room each day.  Perhaps, eventually, I’ll be able to reclaim my house :)