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Decorating With Scripture

Thursday, December 1st, 2011

I’ve never been a decorator. My mother isn’t either…nor is my grandma. So, it isn’t something I learned growing up, and it most certainly doesn’t come naturally.  When I first read about decorating with scripture, I loved the idea, but passed it off as something I would never be able to pull off.

God has me leading the Tuesday Night Women’s Bible Study.  We have studied Obadiah and currently are studying Joel.  Each week we have a memory verse.  I can’t memorize anything unless I see it a gazillion times over and over.  So, I made cards for myself and the other ladies in my group, and I figured while I was at it, I should try to make them cute.  These I stuck on the wall above my desk.

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Then I started paying attention to other things I have done. Christians in China have a special place in my heart. This says “Remember those in bonds as though you are bound with them. Hebrews 13:3″ It’s actually one of my favourite wall scrolls.
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I then mentioned to my mother in law that I was trying to learn to decorate, and to do alot with scripture. So she gave me this in reference to 1 Cor. 13:13

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In the same spirit of my memory verse cards, I made some larger cards, and framed them.

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And I have to admit, Christmas has gotten me in the mood for thinking about the names of God.
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Turns out that this was something that I can do. And it is extremely refreshing to see God’s word through out my day all over the house.

Cleaning Marathon and A Quick Supper

Wednesday, September 14th, 2011

I went on a cleaning marathon last week.  I was a bad Mommy and baby gated my children in their room with a few toys while I cleaned.  I felt bad about not having them with me.  I am their Mama, little kids NEED their Mama.  At the same time, I think I have to be honest.  Even thought my house wasn’t as dirty as my brain said it was, there also were lots and lots of little things laying around that are dangerous to a baby that puts everything he can touch in his mouth.  I started to get concerned when I started find rocks in his diaper…and then he was sucking on a stray straight pin.  (scared me silly)

So, I can now honestly say that my house is clean.  I have vanquished the rocks and the straight pins…and I was exhausted.  After I finished cleaning, I was sitting in the kids room just being with them.  Then Rachael announced she was hungry.  Since our main meal of the day is at lunch time, I just made her a peanut butter sandwich.,..which she denounced as not nearly enough food.  After staring in my pantry for a while, I decided that I had nothing that could be assembled into a meal quickly and easily.  So, we went to the store for some macaroni and cheese — something that required almost no brain function.  While we were there, I decided I should toss in some broccoli so I could at there was at least some nutrition in it.  When we got home, i started the water for the pasta, and sautéed the broccoli with some onion.  Once the pasta was done, I tossed the broccoli and onion in with the macaroni and cheese.  It ended up being a huge hit.  Rachael ate quite a bit more than I expected and my husband devoured what was left when he got home.

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Well…

Monday, May 23rd, 2011

I had great ambitions…and I didnt even make it the first week. A cold was going around. All 4 of us got it at one point. Then we were busy on our homestead. Then we got a new stove, and in taking out the old one, discovered that there was some necessary floor repair to be done. Everything all at once, doesnt leave much time for blogging…or doing anything more than the bare minimum. So, I’m a bit behind. But that’s ok, I’m going to jump back in at Day 16 with everyone else.

Bryan and I were talking the other day about the house being so messy.  It helped me to realize that my expectations are completely haywire.   I am expecting perfection, all the time.  And reality says that I cant have the magazine house.  People, including a toddler and a baby, acctually live here.   Spotless isnt going to happen anytime soon.   An all or nothing approach just isn’t going to cut it.

That said, cleaner that what it is currently is definitely possible.  And probably would happen if I would learn to be on the computer less.  It is a time eater.

I Cleaned my Fridge Today

Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

I discovered that since I have a two year old that can open the fridge door by herself….perhaps I should clean the fridge more often…

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A Mission Statement

Monday, May 2nd, 2011

Planning a mission statement was really hard for me.  When I first thought about “why do I want a clean home?”, my answer was, “to justify my staying home — after all it IS my job.”  Well, no wonder my heart isn’t in it!  A reason based of a justification has “drudgery” written all over it.

So, I played mean mommy and told my sick toddler that I wasn’t going to read her any more stories until she had taken a nap.  (we are on chapter 6 of Little House in the Big Woods)  And after I coersed her into going to sleep, I curled up to think about “why”.

I want to glorify God in everything I do. 1 Cor. 10:31 says “So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”  And I’m pretty sure that cleaning my house falls into everything.  But…how?  Well, as I have young children (7 months and 2 years, 3 months) I need a clean house to keep them safe.  Especially now that Edward’s getting older, and more mobile.  I am less stressed, and thus a better mommy and wife.   And, with a clean house, I can have guests over and actually have them be comfortable in their visit.

31 Days to Clean

Sunday, May 1st, 2011

I got so caught up in being “busy” that I haven’t blogged in a while.  Unfortunately, looking back, I also forgot my family.  I included my little ones some, but often I sent Rachael off to play, and confined Edward to his chair while I worked.  I had forgotten the heart of homemaking.  As such, I was running as fast as I could and getting no where.  And I was losing.  In ignoring my two year old, she was playing, and making messes where I had just cleaned.  And my frustration was mounting.  My husband even asked me a couple times what had happened to having a heart for my home.  I only give him the answer “I dont know”

I came across the ebook, 31 Days to Clean, along with a link up following the book.  It addresses heart issues.  Having a heart to care for our homes.  I think the challenge will help me to get back on tracks…

Thankful for the Little Things

Wednesday, January 5th, 2011

It’s hard to believe it is a new year already! I was super busy though the holidays. Now that it is over, I can settle into a more normal routine again.
For Christmas, we visited a non Christian half of our family. We focused more on being thankful for the family that God has given us, and well as being thankful for the stuff we have gotten, more of a second thanksgiving.
This has gotten me thinking about thankfulness.
It can be so hard to focus on the little things to be thankful for. When I think of my chickens, my first reaction is to think of all the problems we had at first. We had one get sick and nearly die. About the time it recovered, our flock of 5 was killed. We got 8 more, and then about 2 months later, 3 were killed. But, that shouldn’t be my focus. My focus should be on the 5 that were spared. Or that God saw fit to allow them to start laying in the winter (when everyone told me chickens stop laying)
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A little more common among moms…when 1 child wakes up in the middle of the night after having bad dreams, and the other wont quit crying becuase they are teething. Even though I am tired, and really would like some sleep. I am thankful that God has seen fit to give me these two blessings. And, in spite of being tired, God will sustain me.

Oven Cleaner

Wednesday, December 15th, 2010

If I was completely honest, I would have to admit that I don’t clean my oven. I generally ignore it and hope it will go away. Surprisingly, that method works better than most would think. If something spills, it smokes for a while in subsequent uses, but it eventually goes away. Still, I probably should clean my oven more often than once every 4 years (and that was only because we were moving out of our rental).

I recently got a book on making natural cleaners. It had a little section on oven cleaners. I figured it would be worth the try, and if it didnt work, I was no worse off, and I could always go back to ignoring it.

Put cold water in a spray bottle, and lightly spray the entire oven. Then sprinkle baking soda over the bottom of the oven (and the door if you need to). Mist again with cold water. And, ignore it for several hours or over night. Then come back and just wipe the baking soda up. It was magic, there was only 1 little spot in the back that I ended up needed to scrub.

Menu Planning

Wednesday, November 24th, 2010

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Menu planning is something I’ve been doing for a while. I plan my menu for the week, and then go shopping on Friday. This is gradually changing since we are able to go up to Albuquerque more often, and there are better stores there. So I am trying to plan for 2 weeks. But it takes a really long time to go though my cookbooks, and decide what we are going to be having. I even struggle with just a week.

Recently, I made a pattern to my menu. I assigned a meal type to each day. Sundays, we have a lamb dish. Monday is Italian food. Tuesdays usually we arent home around dinner time, so that’s been burritos since burritos are quick and easy. Wednesday is Asian food. Thursdays, Bryan doesnt get home until 8, so we have pizza. I can make 2, and cook 1 for Rachael, and save the other until Bryan is on his way home, toss it in the oven, and its done about the time we’ve gotten Rachael to bed. Friday is a free day, sometimes we have leftovers, sometimes we go out, sometimes it just something I feel like making. And Saturday is Mexican food.

Doing this has simplified the menu planning process immensely.

Apron Virtues

Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

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People dress nicely for their jobs, or have a specific uniform that they are to wear. But as a homemaker, my job is at home, and I dont have a dress code. So, it is easy to want to stay comfortable rather than look nice. After all, its not much fun to get baby puke all over your nice clothes, or be scrubbing toilets in them.

But, my family is worth it. I want them to see me looking nice. Not in grungy work clothes all the time. I want my husband to know he is worth it. And I want to model biblical femininity to my children. However, I still dont want to smell like baby puke all the time. So I went to wal mart, bought an apron pattern and made myself an apron. Brilliant idea didnt work.

I’m me. Which means I have to take into account that I’m clumsy, and sometimes do things without thinking. While cooking, if I’m wearing an apron, I tend to wipe my hands on myself instead of using a towel. Unfortuently, I was consistently missing the apron, and walking around with wet, or slightly greasy hand prints on my rear — not exactly modeling femininity or looking nice for my husband. I also was managing to get stuff on my skirt, just past my apron. So, I obviously needed a bigger apron.

A big, old fashion apron was something that I had wanted for a while. But, I had no idea how to go about it. I googled, trying to find a pattern, and found instructions from a website called Shepherd’s Hill, but they involved using the bodice of a dress. Not having a dress pattern to use, I couldnt use those directions. I eventually came across a site that no longer exists called intimelyfashion.com. They had a lot of neat stuff on how to style your hair, and how to make an apron like Molly’s in Wives and Daughters. I was thrilled, an bookmarked the site. They account went away before I could make the apron. But, thankfully, the wayback machine had archived them. So, here is the pattern.
(If anyone has any suggestions on how to alter it so it fits my shoulders a little better, I’d love to hear from you.  I already moved the straps closer to the center in the back, which helped some…)

Along with the practical benefits of having an apron — I stay cleaner, which then makes laundry easier — fewer stains to try to remove. My apron makes a statement about me. It shouts “I am a housewife”. It has spoken to my heart. I am more in the mood to do work when I wear it. It reminds me, I am a worker at home.

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